after the death of Marilyn Monroe

 The stigmatized, the normal, and the wise

Self acceptance is being loving and happy with who you are now. It’s an agreement with yourself to appreciate, validate, accept, and support who you are at this moment.
"Virtue may be defined as a habit of mind (animi) in harmony with reason and the order of nature. It has four parts: wisdom (prudentiam), justice, courage, temperance." (De Inventione, II, LIII)

When a stranger comes into our presence, then, first appearances are likely to enable us to anticipate his category and attributes, his "social identity"

Social stigma is the extreme disapproval of (or discontent with) a person or group on socially characteristic grounds that are perceived, and serve to distinguish them, from other members of a society. Stigma may then be affixed to such a person, by the greater society, who differs from their cultural norms,may also be described as a label that associates a person to a set of unwanted characteristics that form a stereotype.